Dating and pain advice

Aasmund Ryningen
3 min readOct 31, 2020


The following is about guys’ problems, but I think you girls also will find this interesting.

A lot of guys are single nowadays.

And it ain’t getting any better for them. They try their best to get a good looking, cute and kind girl but they always end up failing. Either they don’t get a girl at all, or they end up with a real nasty one who goes hot cold, hot cold on them. What I mean by that is that the girl will message them, then ignore them, then message them again and go back and forth. Essentially, she is in charge of the relationship because the guy is way too scared to speak up or say anything that doesn’t comply with their beliefs.

After a while the girl gets so bored with the guy, she moves on.

And understandably so. Girls just wanna have fun, right?

Nobody wants to be around a boring dork who just sits there, agrees with everything she says and doesn’t give her a challenge or at the very least stands up for himself.

It’s not attractive.

And the fact is, it’s not attractive for other guys either. Now, I’m talking about the business/friend side of a relationship, not a romantic relationship between two men. I’m not gay, so I don’t know how that works, but I assume it applies for those kinds of relationships as well.

Nobody likes a bore.

Be interesting.

Be funny.

Dare to say something over the edge once in a while. Like for example that you hope Trump’s gonna win the election and that he’s the best President the US has ever had.

It may repel some girls.

But it will attract others. Other girls who respect you for the kind of man you are. The kind of man they’re looking for.

And this reminds me of something else. About what you can do to ‘repel’ chronic pain. First and foremost, just so you know, I’m not handing out health advice here, I’m just telling you what people have done that has greatly improved their health and reduced their pain levels.

That doesn’t mean it’ll work for all (because just like there are different girls and guys, there are different bodies and pain issues), but I’ve never heard about people who have done this and gotten worse pain than what they had.

And, it’s really simple. I’m not saying it’s easy and that it’s not going to take a whole bunch of work, but it is going to be a system that all but guarantees your way to a healthier life.

Simply put, start eating healthy. Focus on eating whole foods, clean foods and fast. Your body is doing so well when you’re fasting.

Exercise to the best of your abilities. Even a small five minute walk around the block is better than sitting still all day long.

Take CBD oil. It’s a natural remedy sans any known side effects, and you don’t need a prescription to buy it.

Do all of these three repeatedly and over time, you’ll see what kind of amazing machine your body really is.

It’s simple, yet boring and unsexy advice.

But what do you know, to a lot of people it has actually worked pretty well.

Let that sink in.